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This post is part of the April Bilingual Blogging Carnival hosted by Multilingual Mania. 
Oh where do we start?  Bilingualism has always been an issue for my family, but not for the reason that you might suspect. As an unschooling mom, I try to tell myself that each day is a learning experience, and you know what, it's all a learning experience for me, because I am learning as I am teaching, but it's a challenge.

I have become a child again. I am navigating the world through a child's eyes, and I am liking what I see. Even though I studied French, I know so little, it is frustrating at times. Technically, I shouldn't say that I know little...I know a lot in fact. What I realized in the past few weeks since I have been trying to practice bilingualism in our home is that I do not have the patience for "not knowing". I am used to being the know-it-all. I am used to being the one who always possess the ability to bridge the gap between my family members, when it comes to language barriers, but I fail miserably when I don't know what to do.

At first when I began my little language quest, I felt hopeful, but after one day, I just wanted to cry. I felt foolish for many reasons. Ultimately, I felt, what's the point, no one cares...I don't care. I felt oppressed, I can't believe I said it, but I felt it. I felt oppressed by an impossible force that was chaining me to MY commitment to speak a language that I'm not always comfortable with. I spoke to hubby about my feelings, but it just wasn't as important to him, in fact OPOL is the last thing on his mind.

Last week, I bought some note cards. I labelled everything that I could in my house. I didn't do it for me, I did it so that my family would see that it is something that we are going to commit to. As I printed every word on the little note cards, I felt like a little child learning all over again. I tell myself, today is a learning day. Learning and teaching and exploring with my Rainbow child must go hand in hand. I tell myself, and I would tell Rainbow, (if he could actually comprehend),  that each tidbit of knowledge, each  and every single experience gives me the tools to bring something new to our adventure.
It's not easy busting out of my comfort zone...English...but it's not impossible. I try to remind myself that French can become my comfort zone, just the same. In learning as I am teaching, I have to be flexible and open and welcome every experience as an essential part of being the teacher and mother that I want to be, or that my children deserve. I think that every child who grows up in a family where language and imagination is the main focus, will always have an outlet. Achieving bilingualism in my home is not going to be easy, but I'm up for it.





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When the time came to start Nora on solid foods I was a bit lost as to what I should feed her. In the UK it is recommended to wait until baby is 6 months before beginning solids, but you can start as early as 4 months with your paediatricians go ahead.

My best friend recommended that I look for Annabel Karmel's book on weaning and I went out at Christmas time and bought Top 100 baby purees.

I have to say this book has been wonderful! It breaks down recipes into age and tells you the ingredients and what to do for each step. I have really enjoyed making Nora’s food and even though I work full time I have found it really easy to keep on top of. I usually make batches of her food on the weekend and keep it in little pots in the freezer, just take one out for her to take to daycare everyday.

So far she really enjoys most vegetables and I’m really looking forward to trying the fish and chicken recipes from this book.

Annabel Karmel has many other recipe books for babies, toddlers and children and I’m sure I will buy some of her other books as Nora grows up!

Buy Top 100 Baby Purees.

Other books by Annabel Karmal:


You can visit Amalia's blog 7 Days in the Sun.





























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Bismillah...Rainbow is 6 months old today...that's 6 months more than his brother lived, alhamdullelah. 6 months after Hussein died I was simply in shock; now here I am parenting my Rainbow child. He has filled the void in my heart and (along with my other kids), help me get through the days and nights.

The reality of grief is very tricky, because in grief there is always hope (at least there was for me), I am happy that this hope was realized. When I look at Rainbow I see Hussein, because both boys look like their baba. I love my little Rainbow child...



Stay tuned for a book review from Chasing Rainbow's newest contributor, Amalia tomorrow.
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Hello my dear Chasing Rainbow readers. I have some lovely guest contributors that I would like to introduce you to...
Amalia
I am half Egyptian, half English. Born in England, I lived in Dubai as a child (for 8 years) and moved to England at age 9. I have been living in Egypt since 2007, married in 2008 and became a mummy in 2010.
I am a working mum, who spends a lot of time arranging lessons and activities for my active class of 6,7 year olds. I love my job and find it very rewarding, although tiring at times, especially while looking after my little girl!
In my spare time (when I get any!) I enjoy reading, sewing (especially embroidery) scrap-booking and travelling.  I am a terrible cook but I enjoy testing out new recipes, even when they take a while to perfect!

Her Blog: 7daysinthesun.blogspot.com


Umm Sou Sou

If Umm Sou Sou lived in another time, she would probably be a Viking Woman Warrior smashing the bahoongas out of anyone who crossed her path and leading her own strapping army to conquer where ever  tickled her fancy!


Today, she is "reluctant" stay at home mother channeling all her charisma into daily life. She often refers to her other half as "the brown man" and asks him every other year to let her travel the world by herself with the promise of returning one day. He always responds with a "NO."  Whenever she can, you can find her running her own online shops, finding ways to make money, and writing about "green" living, frugality, and thrifting.

She was educated in Washington, D.C. where, while playing rugby, she earned a bachelors in International Relations and Business Administration. She is fluent in Egyptian Arabic and Spanish and has dreams of one day running her own fashion brand.

Whenever she gets any personal time, you will find her reading self-help books, watching scary movies, writing funny poetry, practicing her faith, and buying cheap stuff online so she can make herself feel more awesome.

Umm Sou Sou tries to live life to its fullest with passion and enthusiasm and believes drawbacks are just opportunities to try again and learn from her mistakes.

She has also used the names Is-za and Aunty Jelass and is the former author of After the Nikah a Muslim Marriage Blog. She is a fan or rice, kofta, and cheese.
her blog Furiously Fab Muslim

Nishana
Nishana is a working mother of a little girl. Working as a programmer in e-learning based industry. Basically from Kerala, India and now residing in USA. She has a Bachelors of Engineering in Electronics and communication engineering. 

She takes life as it comes and believes everything coming from Almighty would be for her best. She is glad to be inside the boundaries drawn by religion and found it is the best. Believes that biggest strength is faith in creator and best weapon is patience and prayer.

She loves spending hours with her munchkin, observing things kiddu does every second. While kiddu takes a nap, she keeps imagining what would be her dream. She is eager to read about infants in childcare magazines. She does everything to ensure a pleasant and brilliant childhood for her child and hence she is working from home for more than an year!


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Thanks for stopping by. I am cleaning up this blog...Please Excuse the mess.



The Adventures of My Family of 8 Tuesday Blog Hop
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Bismillah...it's Monday again and that means that Rainbow is in the spotlight. Rainbow had a great week because Iman and Amira were at home on Easter Break.

Outings:
The weather was so beautiful on the week-end that we went for a special day out. We had treats at a yummy Portuguese Bakery. Rainbow was awake for the first time EVER. He made a huge mess with the napkins (he likes to eat them, lol). I think  in his opinion they taste better than rice milk...

Lessons:
Unschooling takes a lot of work...it's incredible. I don't mean it in a bad way, just trying to make sense of what I do with my time. In order for me to really stay on top of teaching my kiddies, I need to spend less time online. I already cut down my time, but I will have to do even more.



So what about this peeing business. Well, if you ever had a boy then you know about the peeing business. I thought I was prepared, but every once in a while Rainbow gives me a huge messy surprise. At almost 6 months Rainbow still wakes every hour (almost on the hour) for feedings, so I am usually very tired. Nursing is going great actually, but considering he eats rice cereal now, I thought he would nurse less...my mistake. 

This morning, I was out of it, as I am every other morning. I try to eat when I get up, and take all my vitamins (recommended), so after nursing I put him down and got some toast. While he was asleep, I realized that he had poop, so I woke him to change his diaper. He didn't like that...would you? So I turned around to pick up a new diaper and saw "sprinkles of wetness" everywhere. Call me slow, but I didn't realize what had happened and Rainbow was giving me a look like "...what did you do?" It was all over his face...my pillow and my plate...needless to say, this little bug has awesome aim, lucky me.
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 Happy Earth Day!

Toronto Zoo Party for the Planet
Because Good Friday and Earth Day coincide in 2011, the Toronto Zoo is holding a weekend long "Party for the Planet" instead of just the "Easter Egg-Stravaganza" of previous years. Most activities will be held at the new Tundra Terk exhibit, and there will be additional polar bear keeper talks. Instead of taking home eggs, during this Eco-Easter families can purchase a rain barrel at a reduced rate.
Friday April 22nd - Monday April 25th, 2011
Go to the Zoo's website  Toronto Zoo






Shop at Habitat for Humanity


Get Interactive with the Kids

Buy (but only if you have to)
Friend Finding Fridays
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Bismillah... If you remember last week, I had written that I will no longer post Recipe Thursday. I have yet to find something to fill the slot, so we'll just go with the flow for now. As stated I wasn't feeling very great, I am just starting to catch up on my sleep as well, which is really funny because at any hour of the day I just curl up in a ball and nap, lol. I am feeling so much better.


So on with the show...Are you looking forward to Earth day? Have you been doing any activities with the children? How do you speak about the importance of taking care of the earth?

Teaching kids about the Earth is a good way to get them excited about taking care of our beautiful planet. There are so many resources out there, it's not hard to find books, interactive media and activities that are fun for the whole family. I was looking for some great resources for Amira to do an Earth Day project and I found some great stuff. Amira is not keen on showing her work here, but I will see what I can do. For the moment we (the family) are giving it up here. We don't have television, so I have also tried to talk my hubby into exercising more, therefore turning off the computer etc etc. On my end the issue is the same. Less bogging, more activities. What do you say?

Check out these great resources...

Earth Book for Kids: Activities to Help Heal the EnvironmentGood Earth Art: Environmental Art for KidsMagic School Bus Explores Inside the Earth [Old Version]The New York Public Library Incredible Earth: A Book of Answers for Kids (The New York Public Library Books for Kids)Assignment: Earth - What Kids Can Do to Save the Planet (Musical) CDThe Garbage MonsterI Can Save the Earth!: One Little Monster Learns to Reduce, Reuse, and Recycle (Little Green Books)
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Bismillah...Hello everyone. I have had a not so great week, and I am off schedule...I know.
I guess I will begin by giving my Rainbow update, which will allow me to get into the heart of the issue I have been facing.

Well, Rainbow is almost 6 months. He's crawling backwards, which is more like doing the worm (backwards). It looks cute, I can't help but laugh. He's sitting up, but would rather stand (not working). He's getting into the groove of eating his rice cereal, and every time it's "eating" time he tries to grab the bowl from my hands and put his face in it. He's hates his vitamin D drops, so I have started putting it into his cereal. Now I think the little bug knows and I think he's plotting his revenge against me when he can...sleep with one eyes open anyone? What else? He's a little guy...he's still in size 1 diapers. He's got a strong kick, and likes to bug everyone by kicking at anything in sight. This includes, food in hand, the laptop, your face...anything.

We are doing okay here with his lessons. He is extremely patient when it comes to listening to stories and watching his videos. He loves Ludovic, Troto, and an Arabic video with dancing fruit (lol). OPOL not bad last week. I say kudos to hubby and I will continue to nag him. From my end, hmm, not so great. I read somewhere (a blog perhaps) where a linguist stated that parents who do not speak a language fluently shouldn't try to teach their kids because it gets frustrating and you will pass on imperfect pronunciation etc. I'm sorry, that's crap in every way. It is frustrating, and it takes a while sometimes for me to formulate what I need to say and how to say it, but there is nothing wrong with trying. The best example is hubby. He still has a hard time with English. Obviously, Arabic just comes naturally to him. He speaks English to all of us, but at times, he has to find the word...even look it up, sometimes I have to ask him to spell a word, because I have no idea what he is saying. This takes times, and effort, but that's how he will get better at it?! Hmm, so why shouldn't a non-Native French speaker like me, learn to do the work, and pass it on to my kids?  I wish I could find that article again.

So I have been under the weather for about 2 weeks. It didn't start out bad, in fact, I thought it was just the change in the weather. I was wrong. The funny thing is that it has affected both Rainbow and I. It all started when I began drinking soy beverage AGAIN. I am lactose intolerant, and usually drink rice milk. Unfortunately, I don't get out of the house much and the closest supermarket sells only soys and almond beverage (as an alternative), so a couple weeks ago, I bought soy when I couldn't get to the bigger supermarket.

I began to feel ill everyday, but not like when I drink milk, so I never connected it to my food choices. Then Rainbow had the rash, I spoke about last week. The Dr told us that it was like baby eczema, so we were happy to know it wasn't something worse, because it looked really red and scaly, and it was very itchy.
I didn't drink soy for 3 days and Rainbow's rash got better. When I drank it again, his rash came back and his face was a bit swollen. At the same time I was feeling very lethargic and feverish with brutal headaches.
When you have a little baby and you don't get much sleep, food intolerance is the last thing on your mind...I just never connected the two.

 My question is what is really in our foods? When people say that years ago they didn't get sick from foods, and that children didn't have all the health issues that they have now, many people disagree, but I think they are right. Almost everything makes children sick, and even healthy adults are starting to get sick from everyday foods.
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Bismillah...I cannot believe how many of my friends have had or are having babies...it's so exciting. One thing I have noticed is the number of Spring babies. Two out of 4 of my children are born in Spring, but Amira (whose b-day is today btw) had 3 friends in her class of 10 born in April, and believe it or not, two of them, plus Amira was born on April 16th. Could there really be an April 'thing'?

With so many friends with newborn babies, plus my love of all things cute and baby lately, I can't help but look, and look some more. I found some great gifts all for under $40.00 at Haute Look an exclusive online shopping site for all things fabulous. As a mommy, I love having the option to shop online and still find all the wonderful designs and high end products found in regular stores.

We bought the Sleep Sheep for a friends little girl at the regular price before I saw that it was listed on Haute Look. No worries, there's lots to choose from and cheap and chic is always in. Happy shopping.


Visit Haute Look & sign up for great deals here.
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